“Efforts are all that matters” Well, yes, it’s something I’ve often found myself saying to anyone who asks me about navigating this phase of life.
Whether it’s relationships, career, or personal growth, if you’re aiming to please everyone around you, then let me tell you, you’re on the wrong track.
The reality is, that it’s not about keeping everyone happy, it’s about the small, consistent efforts you put into everything you do that truly matters.
Why Do Efforts Matter So Much?
Efforts are like a tint, a subtle shade that adds depth and vibrancy to everything it touches.
They might seem insignificant at first glance, but when you take a step back and look at the bigger picture, you realise that these little touches are what make life colourful and meaningful.
Take relationships, for example.
Many people think that love alone is enough to keep a relationship thriving.
But the truth is, love without effort is like a flower without water eventually, it withers away.
It’s the small things, the daily acts of kindness, the time you take to listen, the patience you show, and the understanding you extend, that keep the bond strong.
Effort is the glue that holds everything together.
When you make an effort to be kind, to be present and to be supportive, you create a space where trust and love can flourish.
And believe me, those efforts don’t go unnoticed they build a foundation that can withstand any storm.
The same principle applies to life in general. Like everyone else, you too can shine brighter, but it won’t happen by chance.
It’s your efforts and the persistence to keep pushing forward, even when the odds are against you, that make the difference.
A famous quote says “Success doesn’t come to those who sit back and wait for it, it comes to those who are willing to put in the work, day after day”.
What Happens When We Are Kind to Others?
We have to be kind enough to people, not just because it’s the right thing to do… but because it creates a support system around us.
When we are kind and make an effort to help others, they’re more likely to stand by us when we need it the most.
This mutual support becomes a driving force in your journey, helping you achieve what you once thought was impossible.
And let’s not forget the importance of starting over. It’s never a bad time to begin again.
It’s the small steps that lead to big changes, the consistent actions that build character, and the persistent pursuit of your goals that eventually lead to success.
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Rubini
Well said! Each and every word is true as it is a life lesson in many of our lives. This topic connects me so much and I love this article. Thank you so much for bringing this topic .
Niranjan
I’m so happy to hear that this topic connected with you! It’s always rewarding to know when something we share reflects real-life experiences.
Thank you for such a heartfelt comment!😊